My time is spent wondering about...
Posted 03-13-2009 at 06:31 PM by Drackam
So... I have this girl... Sweet, caring, funny, understanding and beautyfull... BUT!!! She is two years under the legal limit in my country... Now she says she can wait for me but I'm not really shure I want her to...
On the other hand she likes my company, likes the way I treat her and so forth... I'm in a lot of worry because the next time she comes around my place, what do I do??? Do I tell her that I really love her, as I do, or do I tell her that she should find someone her own age and feel heartbroken if she does???
It's really hard for me to regail my feelings as it is, and this situation helps no more than a kick to the groin... So I implore all you pagans out there to help me come up with a solution to my problem... Anything will help...
Thanks in advance Your friend Drackam...
On the other hand she likes my company, likes the way I treat her and so forth... I'm in a lot of worry because the next time she comes around my place, what do I do??? Do I tell her that I really love her, as I do, or do I tell her that she should find someone her own age and feel heartbroken if she does???
It's really hard for me to regail my feelings as it is, and this situation helps no more than a kick to the groin... So I implore all you pagans out there to help me come up with a solution to my problem... Anything will help...
Thanks in advance Your friend Drackam...
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I have no idea what to tell you. I have always been of the opinion that if it was meant to be it will be, whenever that is.
I don't know what the legal age is where you are but young is young. I know I am certainly not the same person I was even just 3 years ago, let's not even get in to say 7 or 8 years ago. I wouldn't even recognize myself I'm sure. Certainly if I would have stayed with the guy I was convinced was THE ONE back then I would never have met the amazing man my husband is.
On the other hand, my brother dated an older girl in high school. She left after graduation and dropped off the face of the planet. He was crushed but moved on. 6 years later they started getting back in contact over email, then flying across country to see each other. They got married last July.
I don't know if this is helpful at all but I wish you the best and hope you get the guidance you are looking for
Posted 04-23-2009 at 09:20 AM by Xynyth
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